If you have landed on this page, you are probably trying to work out what Our Family Wizard will actually cost your family before you commit. The OFW pricing page lists tier names and a per-parent rate, but the math that matters — what a separated family pays as a household over a year — is a calculation you have to do yourself.
This is that calculation, in plain language, with the numbers spelled out. I used OFW for three years through my own separation here in Australia and built It's In Writing afterwards because the cost was one of several things that did not sit right.
What OFW actually charges per parent (2026)
OFW publishes two consumer tiers in Australia.
Essentials — approximately A$199 per parent per year. Includes the core messaging surface, calendar, info bank, and document storage. Court-ready PDF export is included. This is the tier most parents land on if they are choosing on price within OFW.
Premium — approximately A$399 per parent per year. Adds the tone meter, expense tracker, journal, and a handful of other features. Whether you need any of them is genuinely a personal call — most parents I have spoken to over the years use the messaging and the export, and ignore the rest.
Both rates are per parent. There is no shared subscription that covers both parents on a single card.
(For the latest published rate, always check the OFW pricing page directly — pricing has moved over time, and the AU rate sometimes shifts when their US pricing changes.)
What the family of two actually pays
Because OFW charges per parent, the realistic cost for a separated family — both parents subscribed — is double the per-parent rate.
| Tier | Per parent / year | Family of two / year | Family / 5 years |
|---|---|---|---|
| Essentials | A$199 | A$398 | A$1,990 |
| Premium | A$399 | A$798 | A$3,990 |
Five years is not an exaggerated horizon. Plenty of separations involve communication that runs at least that long — through child-support arrangements, schooling decisions, and adolescent-stage logistics. The five-year column is the number that actually matters.
A$1,990 to A$3,990 is real money. It is school excursions, music lessons, a couple of family holidays. Whatever you think about OFW, it is worth being clear-eyed that the cost compounds over the life of the separation.
Why the per-parent model exists
The structural reason is that OFW grew out of the American family-court system, where co-parent communication apps are sometimes ordered by courts and where one parent can be obligated to use the platform regardless of whether the other one wants to pay. In that model, charging per parent makes sense — each user is functionally an independent customer.
It is a worse fit for the typical Australian context, where the platform is usually being chosen by the parents themselves, not imposed by a court. In that case, asking each parent to pay independently doubles the household burden for no real reason.
What the cost gets you (and what it does not)
The OFW Essentials tier covers the things that actually matter for evidentiary use:
- Tamper-resistant message log. Messages cannot be deleted or edited after sending.
- Verified timestamps. Every send is platform-clocked, not device-clocked.
- Read receipts. Recorded on the platform side, not subject to the recipient's device settings.
- PDF export. Court-shape, with the message log formatted for evidentiary use.
- Calendar. Shared, with check-in/out functionality for parenting time.
- Document storage. A shared file vault both parents can read.
What the cost does not give you, in the Australian context specifically:
- Australian-tailored copy. The platform refers to "custody" and "parenting time" — US legal vocabulary, not Australian.
- AU support hours. Support is calibrated to US business hours.
- Local payments. AU pricing exists but the system was built around USD billing.
- A way to cover both parents on one card. This is the structural one. Two parents, two subscriptions, two credit cards.
If those gaps do not matter to you, OFW is a fine product. If they do, you have alternatives.
Where the alternatives sit on price
For straight comparison:
| Platform | Per parent / year (typical) | Family of two / year | Australian-built |
|---|---|---|---|
| Our Family Wizard (Essentials) | A$199 | A$398 | No |
| Our Family Wizard (Premium) | A$399 | A$798 | No |
| Talking Parents (Standard) | A$99 – A$129 | A$198 – A$258 | No |
| 2houses | A$120 – A$180 | A$240 – A$360 | No |
| It's In Writing | A$39.95 (or A$79.90 covers both) | A$79.90 | Yes |
The It's In Writing line is included for completeness. We built it because the OFW cost was real money for not enough product. If A$79.90 per year for the family is the right shape for you, you can start free and try it before paying anything.
Is OFW worth the price?
For some families, yes — particularly if you are actively using the calendar, expense tracker, and journal features in Premium and you want everything in one place. The product is well-built.
For families using OFW primarily for the messaging record and the export, the price is hard to justify. You are paying for forty features and using four. That gap is the entire reason the alternatives exist.
The honest answer depends on which features you actually open. Pull up your OFW account and look at your activity over the last six months. If it is messages, messages, messages, and the occasional PDF export — you are paying Premium prices for an Essentials experience, and the alternatives are worth a serious look.
What to do next
If you are choosing for the first time, the alternatives guide walks through what each platform does well and where each one falls short. If you are already on OFW and curious whether to switch, the cheap-alternative breakdown is a more direct cost-focused comparison. If your separation is recent and your need is "I want a simple, court-shape record at the lowest possible cost", you can start with It's In Writing for free — five messages on signup, no card required.
Whatever you decide, decide deliberately. Five years of OFW Premium is A$3,990 per family. That is the conversation worth having with yourself before subscribing.